Pillow fights and fighting for rights; sharing stuff or playing rough- these are things you have to contend with if you have siblings. For kids who have siblings, the grass is always greener on the other side. They long to be the apple of their parent’s eyes and bask in their undivided attention. But little do they realize that having siblings is much better than being an only child.
Research proves that an only child is much more selfish and spoilt compared to the others with siblings. A study by the Southwest University of Chongqing in China further reveals that “only children” may be better at creativity but always scored lower on “agreeable personality traits” than children with siblings. In fact, medical scans revealed that the “only children” have less grey matter in the median prefrontal cortex which is the part of the brain which deals with thinking about one’s relationships with others. This is why “only children” tend to think more selfishly and are more demanding in attention than those with siblings.
If you are not convinced, here are more reasons why having siblings is better than being an only child.
Reasons why having siblings is better than being an only child.
Having siblings is always better because they are
Someone to talk to
Your sibling is a great companion to talk to and hang out with. You can always discuss, debate, argue and brainstorm ideas and topics. You will never be bored when you have a sibling around. There is so much to share and chat when a brother or sister is around.
Someone to share your secrets with
After a certain age, children find it difficult to discuss their personal problems with parents. For such children, siblings are a boon. Sibling is someone with whom you can share your secrets with. Even the darkest of secrets can be revealed in confidence to your brother or sister. This is because your brother or sister is a person of your age who can relate to you and your problems. They also know you from childhood and are familiar with your strengths and shortcomings. This is why you can always use a sibling as a “sounding board” to express your feelings and share your secrets.
Your sibling is your alter-ego- the most intimate and trusted friend for life.
Someone to lean on
In times of trouble, your sibling is the first person whom you can lean on. They are the silent staff of support who can help carry your burden. You do not have to think twice about asking for help and you can be assured that they will be there for you- any time, any day.
Someone to guard you, and guide you
Everyone needs a friend, philosopher, and guide and the best you can get is a sibling. Siblings always speak their mind and warn you against any risks and dangers. They will also guide you on the right path to choose as they have your best interests at heart.
A sibling is your guardian angel in times of distress and your godfather to guide you throughout your life.
Someone to giggle, gossip and gallivant and play with
Siblings are such fun. You can speak your mind freely without inhibitions to them. You can gossip and giggle unabashedly. You can also bravely gallivant the whole town with them. Yes, siblings are your best friends and companions for life.
All the special moments of your life will probably be with your siblings. Siblings are a part of your tears, fears, smiles, wails, laughter, grins and guffaws. They are the people who support you every step of the way -in both good and bad. Siblings are not only a part of your growing up, they are a part of your entire life. They can play games both indoor and outdoors – resulting in laughter and bonding. They are great companions during family vacations who want to do and explore all the things that you want to.
It is always better to have siblings than to be an only child for they are someone to share and care in your life’s thoroughfare.